About love or love story

I think Love is created in a moment，that does not mean that I fall in love with someone at first sight and then we are in love. But when I see someone who take some action and when this action touches me at once, I think love can spark  in such a moment, countless moments adding up is love. This is what I thought from my last love story. I can always find similarities in hobbies, ideas, personalities, etc., but today I don’t think these things are so important. It's like the sum of all hobbies is a type of a person, but the moments, which I have seen, reflects the uniqueness of a person. So, in my personal thinking, love really happens to the one who is able to capture the moment and that ability needs time to develop. I like the poem 'My gaze is clear as a sunflower' by the Portuguese poet Pessoa, which talks about an essential thing, it says: " Whoever loves knows what he loves. Nor why he loves, or what it is to love…To love is eternal innocence, and the only innocence is not to think…"

In the modern society, perhaps it is hard to reach perfect love, at first it needs some good luck，secondly you need to cross several barriers：fleshly desires，a breakthrough in the symbiotic relationship(I forgot where I read about it) ，then it's possible to find true love. When the lover who you find is like a circle, and you happen to be shaped as circle as well, the best situation of love  happen, that love can  be expanding the radius of both of their circles.

 But due to modern society , few people are really self-sufficient, almost everybody have problems about their psyche, life and so on more or less, so achieving true love becomes more difficult. And there is also another case in the modern society that makes it easy to misunderstand love, that is, love under consumerism. Like the Japanese film which I recently watched, the characters of the story who go from seeming soulmates to being separated. Thinking about the reason, I think is ,under aconsumerist society, what each other has is only what belongs to the creation of others, like books ,games, films ,but more than these“ labels ”，what is really needed is that , to create a little something new or a new value, or a new small world ,it belongs to each other but not taking from others . the meaning of love between two persons I think also might be it, and in this process uniqueness is important.

Through this uniqueness many moments in life can be discovered continually  and then each life becomes more complete,in this process the life of the individual is opening up bit by bit. Although in the last love story, which may not have ended so well, perhaps each life becomes more complete so it’s not bad. In the last love story, I think I was very accepted and that had a big impact on me. That also does not mean we make each other complete, but through this relationship, each becomes more complete.

  I agree that there are many forms of love, possession is not necessarily love, but a certain degree of possession is an expression of love ，any form of love that exists under normal conditions has its justification. Perhaps plural relationships are more likely to occur in people with high levels of self-satisfaction，but on the contrary, I don't know the meaning of this form of love either…Perhaps the forms depend on the person pursuing.

  Although I find love difficult, I still believe in it. In many films, likes《Titanic》《Interstellar》when nothing scientific or technical can solve the problem, the final theme is still love. These is are  a few thoughts about love.